Monday, April 21, 2014

Always Running Out of Time?

Maxim #1: Work expands to the time allotted to it.
Implications: If you set time estimates for tasks and strive to complete the task within the limit, you will maximize your time. We've all experienced the truth of this statement. When you had a college paper due the next day, you wrote more pages in fewer hours than you ever thought possible. Alternatively, when you have a whole day to pack for next week's trip, you watch hours pass and not put anything in your suitcase. When we set reasonable limits for our tasks, we can accomplish much more in a shorter period.

Maxim #2: We always do whatever we want.
Implications: Even though you say you want to exercise, it appears that you'd rather watch a movie or hang out with your friends. Our actions reveal what we desire. If you aren't reaching your goals, you may want to consider whether your actions are reflecting your priorities (in work, relationships, family, etc), and make corrections as necessary. If you think it will all be better if you had more time, don't forget that God holds us responsible for wise stewardship of our time. Be careful what you wish for. You already have 24 hours a day to be faithful with. Are you sure you want more?

Maxim #3: God gives you exactly all the time you need to do His will.
Implications: If you think you don't have enough time to do all that you have to do, then you may be right. First, you must cut out of your to-do list all tasks that are not God's will. Then, you must draw upon the grace and power that God so graciously provides to complete the tasks that are His will. Don't forget to ask God to mercifully remove a task from your plate or to postpone a deadline or to consider who to ask to help you.

Maxim #4: Don't forget to sharpen your tools before you begin.
Implications: You are more efficient during a day sitting at a desk if you take breaks often, eat healthy food, and move/exercise regularly. Keep yourself sharp!  Also, for example, when cooking, take a moment to clear the counter of unnecessary junk first. How many times have we spilled or broken things that didn't belong on the counter at all?  If you prepare your workplace and sharpen your tools, then you'll make your job easier and save yourself time and frustration. No use crying over spilled milk, but even better to put the milk back in the fridge so it won't be knocked over.

Maxim #5: Why are you doing all this work in the first place?
Implications: First things must come first. If you're running in the rat race and never stopping to reflect, then you'll find yourself in the same place you started, despite having expended incredible energy... going nowhere. At the beginning of your day, dedicate yourself and the tasks of the day to your Lord and Savior Jesus Christ and ask for His input and wisdom on the tasks. If you don't ask for His guidance, then how do you expect to be following in His footsteps?

Sunday, April 20, 2014

Morality of Mankind: Extramarital Affairs

91% of Republicans think extramarital affairs are immoral, while only 78% of Democrats would agree. Independents are in the middle at 86%, according to the Pew Research Center's Spring 2013 Global Attitudes survey. Divorce appears to be far more permissible, as only 37% of Republicans and merely 17% of Democrats think divorce is morally unacceptable.

So then, where do people get their sense of morality from?

Libertarians laud their policy of "don't harm others" as paramount for society to exist, which is not far from Google's motto, "Don't be evil." Yet extramarital affairs cause great amounts of pain and hurt to the spouse who has been cheated. According to this framework, affairs would be immoral. 

People who have a relationship with God or follow religious tenets are among the highest who disapprove of affairs. For example, Christians believe that God created the universe and established principles of behavior that are for the good of society, such as not stealing, coveting, lying, or being unfaithful in marriage. 

Maybe these 9%, 22% and 14% of people see no moral problems with affairs because they themselves are in affairs or have been involved in affairs previously. Would they still think there's no moral problem with it if their spouses were the ones in the affairs?